IF LOVING YOU IS WRONG💔😫

 

By the term love, one is supposed to think of positive emotions and joy brought to a relationship by two people willing to be together.However,in our Kenyan campuses,love has turned out to be toxic and unpredictable.Various couples in campuses struggle to make ends meet in their relationship and make things work.

Many campus couples disagree on various things while in their relationships .Mostly one of their struggles comes from cheating .Most of them are not faithful to each other making them cheat ,when the other partner finds out it becomes a tug of war,where some even kill the other partner due to anger issues and revenge.

More so ,campus relationships are sometimes built on fake love,where the other partner mostly wants to use their lover for material purposes.Many girls love rich spoilt campus boys who will give them money and spoil their endless cravings.When the money is all spent the girls dash off to find other rich guys to mannover around with.

Most campus girls in relationship find 'wababas'(rich old men) to give them money to supplement their relationships without their boyfriends finding out.When it comes to their knowledge the boyfriends get so mad, others even commit suicide due to betrayal .In such situations the girls also commit suicide due to depression and self guilt.

As we know,love is supposed to be smooth however,many immature relationships in campuses makes people realise maybe its too early for campus students to get into relationships.Many parents think it wise for them to focus on their studies and find time for relationships later in their lifetime.

Many immature campus relationships are caused by peer pressure many want to get in relationships because their friends are in relationships.Campus students must learn what works for others might not work for them and must think on their own without peer influence .

Some scenarios where others even spend their school fees on their loved ones only later for them to break up and cause emotional turmoil to the other.Most  end up frustrated and depressed at the same time.

All in all,love is a beautiful thing and we should be cautious to love at the right time with the right people.We know love is blind but at least love with some senses .It should not reach to suicidal thoughts or even genocide.Love should be as peaceful as God creates it to be and enjoyed at the right time.